Why is it so onerous to say goodbye to old makeup? I’ve been occupied with this recently, largely as a result of the entire momentum I had while I was decluttering my stash last spring has grind to a halt. The Marie Kondo prepare I used to be fortunately driving — toot, toot! — has been going nowhere for months.
I’ve been caught. Large time.
One factor that hasn’t helped was that I needed to deliver the entire merchandise that had been out in containers within the storage again into my home, and UGH — it’s an extended, dumb story regarding home-owner’s affiliation parking guidelines, however the level is, I needed to do it, and now the whole lot’s stashed in a nook of my eating room.
Totes upon totes upon totes, however hey, no less than I had the nice sense to not deliver it again into my workplace! 👍
I’m trying on the totes within the nook now and questioning why I haven’t touched them in months.
I believe one purpose is as a result of I assumed that decluttering make-up could be on the identical degree as cleansing out my closet and saying goodbye to my pre-baby wardrobe, which was onerous, however not not possible. Sure, it took some time, and it had many tough emotional moments, however I obtained via it, and I felt nice afterward.
Right here’s the factor, although: with garments, you get instant suggestions if one thing doesn’t match. For instance, after I cleaned out my closet earlier this yr, I might attempt on stuff and make a direct resolution. One time, I attempted on a cute white jacket, and I couldn’t even get my arm via a sleeve, so it was simple to say, “OK, this clearly doesn’t match me proper now at this second, so I’m completely satisfied to cross it on to somebody who can match into it and can recognize it extra.”
With make-up, it’s not at all times the identical instant suggestions for me. I imply, yeah, there are the plain occasions after I’ll open one thing up, and it’ll look bizarre or odor humorous, and I’ll know instantly that it’s going.
The additional I’ve gotten into the purging course of, the more difficult it has turn out to be to say goodbye.
Like, I’ll see an attractive piece I’ve held onto for years and assume to myself, “Oh, that is actually fairly! I’ve to maintain it.” Then I’ll do the mathematics and understand I’ve had it for…manner too lengthy, and though logically I do know the merchandise ought to nonetheless go, has to go, I can’t do it.
I tend to 1) keep in mind how I was previously or 2) take into consideration how I could be sooner or later, and after I’m surrounded by these compacts, lipsticks and palettes, I’m hardly ever ever within the current second.
For instance, I’ll have a blush in my hand, and so many reminiscences of my 30-something self come flooding again. It was a time and place after I was kindasorta fabulous! I stomped-walked in excessive heels all over the place I went — yup, even on the airport, lady! My closet was bursting with quirky clothes and cute equipment, and I stumbled into all kinds of adventures. A lot of the make-up at present sitting within the totes in my eating room is from that period.
And, on the other finish of the spectrum, generally I’ll be holding the identical blush and can begin occupied with the long run. I’ll surprise if I’d want that blush sometime and if I’ll remorse letting it go.
What if, what if, what if.
I suppose one lesson realized from this course of is that I not wish to be swinging forwards and backwards between who I used to be previously and the place I could be in future. I simply actually, actually wish to be extra current within the present second. The now.
So, possibly that’s the push I’ll want. Possibly? I hope so.
I additionally attempt to inform myself that saying goodbye to outdated make-up means I’ll have extra room for higher issues sooner or later. Newer issues. Possibly I’ll discover new colours and textures and types to like!
Anyway, thanks for listening. I hope this was related to you not directly as a fellow magnificence lover.
Right here’s to all of us shifting ahead, one lipstick at a time.
Your pleasant neighborhood magnificence addict,